Hey everyone, I have a situation and hope you can shed some light and will be completely open about it: A while back, I was seeing this girl around 18 months ago. She has been previously married with 2 children from a previous marriage. We had sexual relations and she fell pregnant. Now, we both knew we couldnt keep it and it was agreed and not forced upon, she had a termination a number of weeks later and reluctantly and we soon broke off relations after. Since then we have had frosty relations and she has hated me for it. I have tried to be as supportive as possible. I still keep in touch with her but i get responses of how she cannot get over it. We have both confessed it but she seems to feel that using the devil as an excuse for still feeling guilty is an easy one. More recently, after avoiding all my calls and messages waving the white flag, she suddenly gets in touch saying she has to see a specialist as she may not be able to conceive any more children. Now i feel guilty because i dont want her to feel bitter about anything. Trying to be strong in my faith, i am trying to let God lead me again and to remember that God forgives no matter what. But with her, she is filled with hate and I cant understand what she is going through and i never will. She is now far from the church and nothing i say will ever help.. what can i do.. everytime she gets in touch i get that feeling of guilt and she reminds me of the bad things and i feel its a permanent spot on my life. What do i do when it comes to the girl, with myself. Its hard to move on. God Bless you all for your love and prayers